Love is rare

It is very easy to feel...
It is very easy to feel that you love...


Everything starts with infatuation. All relationships, no matter how long or how intimate, start with the misleading emotion of being infatuated with one another. As shocking as it may sound, the “honeymoon stage” is just a fragment of the whole relationship, if the two continue to pursue a lasting bond. Infatuation is to be unavoidable at the start, true. This expected feeling, however, might mislead one into thinking that he has finally come to a point of wholeheartedly accepting everything about each other, including that of the other’s weaknesses.

The “natural high” brought by the relationship would not be present all the time. Times wherein one would feel unresponsive and uninterested in their relation with one another is inevitable. This is when all that has been blinded by the craze, starts to become visible. The imperfections of the person become clearer, as the spark begins to die down. Having said this, the true identity of your relationship is then revealed.




…Has Infatuation played with both into thinking that what they are feeling is that of “true love”?

...When “natural low” starts to enter the relationship, is acceptance harder to attain than having to stay on and work with each other’s diffrences?

Or


…Has the relationship surpassed the surface of mere infatuation with one another?

…Has this all escalated into accepting everything, most especially the flaws that one possesses?


Yes, It is very easy to feel...
Yes, It is very easy to feel that you love...

But TO love means another...
It is the choice to accept the entire being of the other...
that is love.

that is rare to find.